About Mallory Creek Retreat

The Couples Intensive at Mallory Creek is not a retreat in the conventional sense. It is a structured, multi-day clinical program specifically designed for couples experiencing:

ü  Entrenched conflict

ü  Emotional disconnection

ü  Intimacy disruption

ü  Patterns that have persisted despite prior treatment

Led by Dr. Michael Abrams and Dr. Lidia Abrams — who both trained directly with Albert Ellis, the founder of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) — the program brings a level of clinical depth, scholarly authority, and specialized expertise rarely available in intensive couples treatment.



A Direct Line to the Founders of Modern Couples and Sex Therapy

Albert Ellis, founder of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy and one of the most influential figures in the history of sex and couples treatment, is not a distant historical reference on this site.

Dr. Michael Abrams and Dr. Lidia Abrams trained and worked directly with Ellis over the course of their careers. The clinical philosophy, the treatment structure, and the theoretical framework underlying the Couples Intensive emerged from that direct collaboration and continued to evolve through decades of advanced clinical practice, scholarly publication, and clinician training. Very few practitioners today can claim a direct professional lineage to Ellis. That lineage is not a credential to be listed in a biography. It is the foundation of everything offered here.

Dr. Abrams' New Book on Sexuality
Dr. Lidia Abrams, clinical psychologist at Mallory Creek mental health retreat

Dr. Michael Abrams and Dr. Lidia Abrams are not generalist therapists offering a retreat experience. They are clinician-scholars whose combined careers span more than three decades of advanced clinical practice, scholarly publication, clinician training, and direct intellectual lineage to one of the founders of modern cognitive and sex therapy. Together, they bring a combined 65 years of clinical experience to the work.

  • Dr. Mike Abrams is the author of multiple books and scholarly publications, an NYU professor, and an international lecturer in cognitive-behavioral therapy, sexuality, and evolutionary psychology.
  • Dr. Lidia Abrams has spent more than two decades supervising and training clinicians in couples and complex relational treatment, and currently serves as Executive Director of a licensed nonprofit mental health agency.

 




The Couples Intensive Mallory Creek, Upstate New York




Dr. Michael Abrams and Dr. Lidia Abrams are not generalist therapists offering a retreat experience. They are clinician-scholars whose combined careers span more than three decades of advanced clinical practice, scholarly publication, clinician training, and direct intellectual lineage to one of the founders of modern cognitive and sex therapy. Together, they bring a combined 65 years of clinical experience to the work.

  • Dr. Mike Abrams is the author of multiple books and scholarly publications, an NYU professor, and an international lecturer in cognitive-behavioral therapy, sexuality, and evolutionary psychology.
  • Dr. Lidia Abrams has spent more than two decades supervising and training clinicians in couples and complex relational treatment, and currently serves as Executive Director of a licensed nonprofit mental health agency.

Who This Program Is For

Designed for Couples Who Are Serious About Change

The program is particularly well-suited for couples experiencing:

 

Why Standard Weekly Therapy Often Falls Short

Weekly therapy has real limitations. Sessions are separated by days of unresolved conflict, avoidance, and emotional disengagement. Momentum is difficult to sustain.

Deeper cognitive and emotional patterns, the ones that actually drive chronic relational distress, often remain untouched beneath surface-level communication work. The Couples Intensive is designed to interrupt those patterns. Its immersive, multi-day structure creates the therapeutic continuity that weekly treatment cannot.

Couples work intensively across:

  • Cognitive, emotional, and behavioral dimensions.
  • Intimacy-focused interventions.
  • Structured daily sessions with a treatment plan built specifically around their relationship.